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IN
SEARCH OF HAPPINESS 2003
by Danai Chanchaochai |
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| How
to achieve the Middle
Path in the 21st Century
To help us achieve the
Middle Path, the Buddha
set out the basic concepts
of the Four Noble Truths
and the Eightfold Path.
- The first truth states
something we all know
- that life is suffering
- experiencing physical
and psychological pain,
illness, disease, old
age, and ultimately,
death. Nothing lasts
forever.
- The second truth is
that suffering is caused
by craving and desire.
- The third truth is
that suffering can be
overcome and happiness
can be attained. By
overcoming the notion
of self, of desire,
we have the spiritual
freedom and motivation
to help others.
- The fourth truth is
that the Noble Eightfold
Path leads to the end
of suffering. Its eight
steps are, Right View,
Right Intention, Right
Speech, Right Action,
Right Livelihood, Right
Effort, Right Mindfulness,
Right Concentration.
By ethical conduct, mental
discipline, and wisdom
and by developing a harmonious
equanimity, we can lead
complete and fulfilling
lives. It is a balanced
approach - seeing things
as they really are and
not as they appear to
be.
And by basing our conduct
on the Buddhist Five Precepts
of not killing, not stealing,
not misusing sex, not
speaking falsely, and
not using alcohol or drugs,
we can follow the Middle
Path in a spirit of loving
kindness and true understanding. |
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| ABOUT
THE AUTHOR
DANAI CHANCHAOCHAI
Danai
Chanchaochai, 36-year
old CEO of a leading public
relations firm in Thailand,
MDK Consultants, is living
proof of a new generation
executive who can well
balance the world of business
and the teachings of Lord
Buddha.
Also
radio host and a columnist
on Dhamma, Danai
has played an active role
in promoting Lord Buddha's
teaching into daily's
lives. Under his guidance,
the company has successfully
integrated Vipassana
meditation with corporate
practices. It not only
supports meditation courses
for its staff, but also
promotes Vipassana
meditation for its blue-chip
clients and the general
public. MDK's staff are
encouraged to take 8 -
day meditation courses
to benefit their overall
well being and productivity,
as well as the company's
as a whole.
His
easy-to-understand
Dhamma has inspired
colleagues and friends
both in Thailand and abroad
to pay more attention
to the discovered truth
and wisdom of Buddha.
His ultimate goal is to
position Dhamma as an
everlasting, practical
guide for everyone. |
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Thailand
has long been referred to
as "The Land of Smiles".
The people's natural hospitality
and good-natured friendliness
are generally offered as
reasons for the famous smile.
But at least one westerner
clearly believes there's
more to it.
In the introduction of
an account of his own
ordination as a Buddhist
monk in Thailand he says,
"It's not without
reason that Thailand is
called 'The Land of Smiles'.
Any individual who lives
his life according to
the Lord Buddha's guidance,
should be able to avoid
a great deal of suffering.
Thailand being a predominantly
Buddhist country, therefore
the smiles."
There will certainly
be an abundance of smiles
throughout the New Year
celebrations both here
in Thailand an around
the world. The trick though
is to maintain that cheery
disposition, that optimistic
outlook. To make every
day a new day.
And how do we do that
in a world where conflicts
between nations and people
constantly loom on the
horizon, and as individuals
we have families to feed,
work to be done and problems
to resolve?
One way for certain,
is to discover the truths
of Buddhist thinking.
Of learning and then understanding
through self-discovery
that our unhappiness,
our suffering, stems from
desire and that cessation
of desire leads to a clarity
of vision and a happiness
that can come only from
true understanding.
Noble aspirations you
might say, but not to
easy to achieve in today's
busy materialistic world.
Actually, getting started
on that Middle Path, is
really not so difficult.
Here are five tips to
waking up every day with
that 'glad to be alive
feeling'.
- Start with a 20-minute
session of "mindful
breathing." That
means sitting in a comfortable
and relaxed position,
spine erect, shoulders
down and relaxed. Focus
only on the breath flowing
into and out of your
body. Notice the sensation
of the breath, as it
whispers across the
skin just below the
nostrils, and above
the upper lip. Feel
the sensation as you
breathe.
You can increase the
duration of your 'breathing'
session as you progress.
- Think positive, happy
thoughts. Think kindly
of others and consider
your words carefully.
- Look first within
yourself before looking
to the external world
and make this a golden
rule.
- Do at least one good
deed a day. Be the first
to smile, the first
to say sorry, the first
to forgive.
- Savour every minute,
every hour, of every
day.
Follow these five "New
Year Resolutions"
and every day will indeed
be a new day, and 2003
will be the first of many
years of happiness. |
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